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    Is my best friend toxic? A textual analysis of online advice on difficult relationships

    Lahad, Kinneret and van Hooff, Jenny ORCID logoORCID: https://orcid.org/0000-0001-8735-8758 (2023) Is my best friend toxic? A textual analysis of online advice on difficult relationships. Families, Relationships and Societies: an international journal of research and debate, 12 (4). pp. 572-587. ISSN 2046-7435

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    Abstract

    In this article, we analyse how mediated discourses of toxic friendships echo and reconstruct the category of the toxic friend. We ask: what kind of assumptions does the toxic friendship discourse draw on, and what forms of subjectivity and interpersonal relationships are encouraged? Employing a critical discourse analysis of digital texts, we argue that the discursive category of the toxic friend draws on a simplistic set of classificatory dichotomies distinguishing between the good and the toxic friend. We also suggest that the popular labelling of difficult friendships as ‘toxic’ reflects the contemporary diffusion of the notion of toxicity in contemporary public culture. We contend that this discourse reflects the discursive conflation between therapeutic culture and neoliberal wellness logic, with the figure of the toxic friend constructed in ways that support imperatives for self-care and self-governance. While much of the advice situates friendship as an important personal tie, there is very little encouragement to ‘work’ on these relationships. As such, these discourses offer a reductive, disposable approach to friendship ties that overlooks the complexities and lived experiences of friendship relations.

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